So you're thinking that just because your a guy and you have a , well you know,  there is no way you can be the source of the infertility problem.  Can't be me, your brain screams out in narcissistic denial.  I hate to break the news.  It may be you. 

Fertility expert Dr. Mark Perloe of Georgia Reproductive Specialists has something to tell you.  Infertility affects 1 in 8 couples of child-bearing age. Of those 7.4 million cases of infertility, 30 percent are attributed to the male.

 "If you're thinking about becoming a father for the first time," he states, "there are three primary considerations you need to make. Think of these broadly as mind, body and sprit. All need to be positive and healthy.

"First, your mind needs to focus on whether this is a good time for you and your partner, whether you are ready to accept the responsibility of parenthood." Dr. Perloe noted.   Next, the potential father should be sure he is physically ready to start a family by knowing know his sperm count.  Finally, a potential father should enjoy the journey of having children.

The lesson here is that we males do not have a "get out of jail free card".  Our participation in the infertility process requires us to do just that, participate.  We have to support our partner, undergo testing, and work toward a resolution in a non-judgmental fashion. 

For more information on the male factor: http://http://infertilityanswers.org/what_are_the_fertility_tests_for_men__